Yo bidness?

Really, I do agree that none of this is really anyone's business.. except those directly involved.  I am involved in no way here except I hear all about this crap because you are all my friends.  Most of me wishes I had never heard about any of this crap, but on the other hand I am glad this crap happens because it's a sign of life.

I don't believe anyone else's behavior reflects on me.. Calliander disagrees, and it makes me think he's trying to live through other people, and not with other people.  We all have faults.  We are aware of many of them too.

I don't tell people things I don't want known by everyone.  Telling one person runs the risk of everyone knowing.  Sad fact, but the truth.  And Stone did not run out and tell anyone anything.  I don't think Calliander really ran out and screamed about anything either.  Everything just sort of seeps out slowly, half by accident.. only because people assume more people are in the loop than there really are.

The bottom line issue is that the vague story telling creates rumours.  Perhaps that's intentional, but it doesn't aid in clearing the air at all.  I don't think anyone is completely in the dark on matters, and at this point no one really needs to be anymore.  Telling the full story does matter, whether anyone likes it or not.

I don't know why the Wils0r situation is the one being discussed here.. it's the one that I've really heard the least about (what's there to say?).. it just doesn't come up.